Mine are not particularly sensitive, not really an inherently erogenous zone for me. But anything can be an erogenous zone if my partner thinks it is.

I'd take the landing strip over completely shaved, but my preference is for an actual bush.

Depends on what gets that particular woman to orgasm, and whatever that is will turn me on. I've known women who absolutely have to be on top and be in control to cum, and women who absolutely have to be on the bottom and able to fully relax in order to cum. Actually the best sex I ever had was what hopp3r mentioned: pressing my partner (who was taller than me) against a shower wall, and it was earthshattering for both of us. That only happened once, and oddly other than "that one time" she was very particular about what position she needed to ultimately find herself in to reach orgasm.

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Cross-dressing doesn't particularly turn me on, but doesn't necessarily turn me off since I am attracted to guys as well as women. But there's something about femininity, and the amazing juxtaposition of someone genuinely living as a woman who has a penis. My vote goes to trans women.

P.s. Despite the show's massive flaws, that trans rabbi on the final episode of And Just Like That is hot as hell!

Cross-dressing doesn't particularly turn me on, but doesn't necessarily turn me off since I am attracted to guys as well as women. But there's something about femininity, and the amazing juxtaposition of someone genuinely living as a woman who has a penis. My vote goes to trans women.

Per the earlier conversation about trans exclusion: I understand that the true meaning of bisexual includes attraction to nonbinary people, but since the prefix "bi" literally means "two," confusion is unavoidable.

Compared to the common "I hate labels" perspective, I only hate them where they become limiting. As someone whose sexuality doesn't fit the heteronorm of attraction to cis women only, I've found it tremendously empowering to be able to name how I am different from that, and to be able to recognize that the way I feel is a real thing, shared with others despite society's erasure of it - even if the choice of words can be confusing to some.

Solo? Probably seven or eight times in one day, when I was a teenager. Even in middle age, I'll occasionally do three or four times in a day, maybe a time or two more than that once in a blue moon. And yes, sore afterward.

With a woman? Pretty sure I've cum at least three times in one day, and I believe I recall four on one special occasion. Sore afterword on those occasions too.

With a man? Regrettably my record is zero, though maybe that could happen one day.

On my first visit to a nude beach, I got so excited I hiked back into the woods and masturbated. This forms the beginning of my "Lewd Beach" story. Even the part about the woman smiling when she noticed my flaccid but still-engorged, reddened cock afterward is true, though sadly the rest of the story after that is fantasy.

I’m with JustPassingThrough and colin123. My preference: all of it, though trimmed is fine too. For many of us who came of age before the mid 90s (when shaving caught on) a shaved pussy looks like a little girl’s - and that is not a turn on. Never been with a woman who was shaved down there, even though they all shaved their armpits and legs in the 80s and early 90s. Wasn’t just a 60s-70s hippie thing, though apparently a lot of people now have that perception. Funny how normal has changed.

What LordCephius said. Yes please ... as long as I get to do him back. Or even better, at the same time in a 69.

Yes, of course it's hot as hell to see that. I've never had a woman go down on me who DIDN'T lock eyes with me while taking me in her mouth, so clearly they wanted me to watch them suck me in.

And should I ever get the chance to go down on a guy, I'll do the same. I would hope it's as hot for him watching me slurp on his meat as it is for me to be eating it.

Well, since I've had tacos hundreds of times, and wieners only once ... if I were single again I would have to go for the wiener. I'd probably want cock, cock and more cock for a while. Doesn't mean I'd end up there in the long run, but at least initially to make up for coming of age at the height of the AIDS crisis and the risks of trying it then.

Hell yes, if I were in a situation free to try it. The ideal is if the other man is also interested in guy-to-guy contact, and the woman is turned on by that (but still, we'd try to spend most of the time doubling her pleasure).

Besides being a massive overgeneralization, the question seems a bit silly, like asking why the sky is blue, or why birds fly, or why straight guys want to see women doing each other. Why? Because it's a warm hole.

That said, I've never had the slightest urge to stick my cock in a woman's ass. I mean, the vagina is two inches away, and a lot easier to get into. Why not just put it in there?

On the other hand, I do get the urge to stick my cock in a man's ass. That does sound nice.

Haven't actually done this but, well, you never know. It could happen someday. I would first try to find someone on a site that isn't completely public and open to every loser (like craigslist back when that was an option) - at least a site that has some membership requirements. Once I found a guy I was interested in, I'd initially under-promise on what I hope to do. Even if you KNOW you want to try oral, or anal, or whatever, you don't know if you want to try it with the guy you're talking to, until you know him a little better. I'd probably just say I MAY want to eventually try those things, but may not be ready for a while. I might just say I want to explore kissing and body contact at first, even though what I really want (eventually) is 69ing with a guy until we fill each other's mouths with sloppy cum.

I think an absolute rule for me would also be to initially meet somewhere safe in public. Even if you have no romantic interest in men, best to start with a date. Get to know each other, talk about nonsexual stuff a bit, ramp up the sexual tension a bit.

Honestly, my very first starting point might well be with a bate club or gathering, which sound like they've become quite popular. A bunch of guys - straight, bi and gay all mixed - all jerking off together. From what I read, these gatherings generally prohibit any kind of penetrative sex, but it's pretty common for men to stroke each other (or NOT, for those not comfortable with it) and even make out while they do it. Seems like a pretty safe way to try man-man contact for the first time. Even that sounds hot as hell to me, even if it never went further than that. Additionally, I imagine that at these gatherings it wouldn't be very difficult at all the meet a guy who'd want to go somewhere else - maybe after that first "date" - and take things further.

Walked around in her apartment, braless in an old sweatshirt that had several holes in it. Watching her ample tits wobble under the sweatshirt as she walked, nipples poking through just a bit, while I got several great side-boob views through the holes in the sweatshirt ... just too much.

Always knew I had at least some male attraction, even before puberty. In high school I had access to Penthouse magazines and their Forum letters, which blessedly included a generous number of man-to-man stories. Truth be told, even though in general my attraction was primarily to women, anytime I got my hands on a new magazine I'd quickly scan the Forum stories for hot male action. Can't tell you how many times I came reading about a man sucking or fucking a man.

In college I probably overlooked a lot of opportunities, but it was the 80s and we were all living in terror of HIV/AIDS ... if you had any desire for women at all, you stuck to them. So I never did anything with a guy then, though I later wished I had.

Only time I've ever acted on it caught me off guard. I just saw the opportunity and went for it without thinking. I was in an adult video booth and hadn't noticed the gloryhole ... until I saw someone's eye peering through it and watching my beat my meat. Then a cock came through the hole, and I had to touch and suck it. 30 years later, I can still taste his flesh between my lips and his cum on my tongue.

I had a girlfriend in college for several months who, I later learned, cheated on me for half a summer - while eagerly talking about marriage. She eventually manipulated me into breaking up with her by being evasive, controlling and basically impossible to have a rational conversation with - but not until after she'd been fucking this other guy for two months. Piecing things together later, I learned from her friends that she was a compulsive liar and basically a terrible person. They'd wanted to warn me but couldn't because she was their friend first, and as her boyfriend for just a few months I'd only been shown the good side of her until about the time the cheating started. Learned a few lessons from that fucked-up mess.

Describe my feelings?

Well, shock, at first. I'd been minding my own business in an adult video store. It was the first time in a fully private booth (which didn't exist in my home state), and thus the first time I'd less-than-discreetly whipped out my dick in one. But it wasn't as private as I realized, and I hadn't noticed the gloryhole connecting to the next booth.

Fascination, since it was my first (and, actually, only) time up close with another man's penis. I loved its warmth, its outer softness, the taste of his skin, the sponginess of the head, the veins around the shaft, everything.

Lust. We started by touching each other's cocks - a first for me, in itself wonderful and magical - but I HAD to have the taste of his cock. So I dropped to my knees pretty quickly in the session, swallowing his meat hungrily and his cum eagerly.

Disappointment. He withdrew and didn't reciprocate after cumming in my mouth.

Fear. Being in an unfamiliar jurisdiction, I was terrified that what I'd just done could get me arrested far from home. Or, worse, give me AIDS. At that time HIV was practically a death sentence and blowjobs without condoms were believed to be an unsafe practice.

Full details, with more of the mechanics but less of the feelings, are in my published story "A Hole New World."

Biggest turn-on, by far? Knowing a woman is into me.

I'm a pretty good-looking guy, but not the tall masculine type that seems to draw more female attention. For some reason women have often seemed to view me as more of a friendship target than a romantic target. So when a woman shows romantic/sexual interest in me (anything from the more subtle to outright flirting) it's the most exciting thing ever.

Sucked one once, but before I met my now wife. Sadly, never had a guy do me. I would have loved to explore this a LOT more as a young man, but it was the height of the AIDS epidemic and it was still a death sentence. Wouldn't do it now, as my wife and I are monogamous and I would never cheat on her. And yes, it would be considered cheating in my case. So I write stories about it instead of actually doing it.

Usually dry. I'm circumcised.

Giving oral, and receiving oral. Ideally combined, since I absolutely adore 69 and would do it every day if I could. But I know many women find 69 overwhelming or otherwise unenjoyable, so I'd be happy to do one, then the other.

Vaginal would be a close third. I would hope to be able to suck on those lovely breasts while doing it, since that's pretty normal during sex (though tit-fucking isn't important to me).

Anal also not important, since the vagina is right next door. Deep throating not important.

I've never understood why someone else's hand on me is so much more pleasurable than my own hand, but it is. So my answer is like Icarus, the one you get ... with the caveat, as others have said, that Engagement is key.

On a number of occasions I have had inexperienced women touch me who squeezed too hard, rubbed the head too much when it was dry or pulled the foreskin too much. I can't blame them for not knowing what (not) to do, since they don't have one of their own, but that's why it's so important to be engaged with your partner (no matter what they're doing). Ideally if something less pleasurable is happening, ideally the recipient is able to communicate it subtly, without going "ow!", and the person giving is tuned in enough to read those cues. Also just as important to communicate, and read, what feels the most pleasurable. That goes for handjobs, blowjobs, pussy eating, fingering and pretty much everything.

Usually hard, as I'm just so excited to be down there. There have been occasions when I was so involved in my technique and gauging her responses that I went semi-soft without thinking about it, though.

Run what you brung, same as I tell women. Don't fuss over your body being different than other people's. No point in being unhappy about what you have, especially things not easily changed. It's the differences that make us beautiful.

That said, as a bi guy I'd love to get up close and personal with an uncut one someday, just to check it out.

Sure, but I've almost never done it for any extended amount of time, or to orgasm. It's always been a relatively brief prelude to something else: either me going down on the woman (which I absolutely love, and I've probably had my fingers inside women's pussies more while eating them than not) or my cock entering her - usually at her insistence too.

Did it many years ago with a girlfriend who was an unusually tall woman. Leaned her back against the shower wall, lifted one of her legs and we went at it. One of the most memorable sexual experiences I've ever had. Hot, steamy, long and leisurely.

Her actually being a couple inches taller than me eliminated any leverage or straining issues - just pure pleasure. Tall women don't get enough respect!

Seems to be the number one topic on these forums, but I guess I hadn't replied to this particular thread before.  Hell yes! Only did it once, now happily married but under the right circumstances I'd do it again.  A hundred times.  Cock is tasty, cum is tasty, and the feeling you get when you make a guy fill your mouth is out of this world. What's not to like? I'm sure many guys are genuinely not interested, but I think a lot, lot more guys are interested than they let on.