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joe71
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Bisexual Cis Male, 58
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Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Never been with a woman who squirts, but I think it would be hot.
Funny how it is such a thing now. I came of age in the 80s and 90s. I watched a helluva lot of porn back then, and there was no squirting. And I talked with other guys about our sexual experiences, and no one, EVER mentioned it. Only virgin ignorant guys who were projecting male sexuality onto women (as sex-advice columnists would point out at the time) thought women ejaculate with orgasm all the time. I certainly never experienced it, the closest thing being when a little fluid slipped out of a woman I was eating -- but I'm 90% sure she had to pee and that's what it actually was (and fine with me, because I don't mind a little pee).
Then in the 2000s all of a sudden squirting was all over the porn scene (even though it's been documented that 99% of those are piss, or water injected into the vagina before the scene). So it's taken me a while to accept that it's even real. My understanding is few if any women actually squirt every time they cum, and many never do. But it sounds like now it's almost expected among the youngsters, who just assume it's the norm because that's what is in porn. Must be a lot of pressure for young women now. I no longer doubt that it is real, for some women, some of the time, but it is not a 100%-of-the-time thing like male ejaculation.
So short answer: definitely hot, not gross, but definitely not expected. Relax and let happen what happens, ladies.
Funny how it is such a thing now. I came of age in the 80s and 90s. I watched a helluva lot of porn back then, and there was no squirting. And I talked with other guys about our sexual experiences, and no one, EVER mentioned it. Only virgin ignorant guys who were projecting male sexuality onto women (as sex-advice columnists would point out at the time) thought women ejaculate with orgasm all the time. I certainly never experienced it, the closest thing being when a little fluid slipped out of a woman I was eating -- but I'm 90% sure she had to pee and that's what it actually was (and fine with me, because I don't mind a little pee).
Then in the 2000s all of a sudden squirting was all over the porn scene (even though it's been documented that 99% of those are piss, or water injected into the vagina before the scene). So it's taken me a while to accept that it's even real. My understanding is few if any women actually squirt every time they cum, and many never do. But it sounds like now it's almost expected among the youngsters, who just assume it's the norm because that's what is in porn. Must be a lot of pressure for young women now. I no longer doubt that it is real, for some women, some of the time, but it is not a 100%-of-the-time thing like male ejaculation.
So short answer: definitely hot, not gross, but definitely not expected. Relax and let happen what happens, ladies.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Fortunately they both tend to go together. I like full figured women generally, and of course big tits tend to be part of the package. I do like 'em, but all tits are great. I once slept with a woman who had pretty much no tits at all (but still fantastic nipples) and she was still great to be with. Run what you brung, and don't think you're inadequate if yours aren't big. You likely have something else wonderful to offer. Besides, those of us with average dicks have had to learn a long time ago that there are guys out there much bigger than us and (unlike with tits) there's ABSOLUTELY nothing we can do about enlarge ourselves. Be comfortable with what you have. It is enough.
Like redcaramel said, natural is more important than size (at least on a cis woman: I would make an exception for trans women for obvious reasons, but would still prefer them on the small to medium side, and less obviously fake). Generally I'll take natural A-cups over fake D-cups any day.
Like redcaramel said, natural is more important than size (at least on a cis woman: I would make an exception for trans women for obvious reasons, but would still prefer them on the small to medium side, and less obviously fake). Generally I'll take natural A-cups over fake D-cups any day.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
This is yet another area where porn diverges from reality, and even from the reality of what most guys' fantasies are. I'm not sure it's even a top-10 fantasy for that many guys. Personally, I'd 100 times rather cum in someone's mouth than on their face.
The reason they do it in porn is not because it is such a popular fantasies, but 100% for the visual. First, it proves that the guy came: you can't see it squirt into the recipient's mouth, but also can see it squirt onto her (or his) face. And the sight of squirting cum is hot in itself. Even though I have no fantasies about actually cumming on anyone's face, I do like the sight of cum and it is hot to watch it shoot out.
The reason they do it in porn is not because it is such a popular fantasies, but 100% for the visual. First, it proves that the guy came: you can't see it squirt into the recipient's mouth, but also can see it squirt onto her (or his) face. And the sight of squirting cum is hot in itself. Even though I have no fantasies about actually cumming on anyone's face, I do like the sight of cum and it is hot to watch it shoot out.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Guess I didn't realize how much of a niche this is. Sure are a lot of negative responses.
Anyway, I suppose I'm one of the few who are interested (although as someone said above, not TOO yellow please - best when you've had lots of water to drink first). Personally, I find the idea very hot. Giving or receiving, with a male or female partner. Not something I'm in the mood for all or even most of the time, but every once in a while I get the urge.
And yes I like the idea of drinking it (again, not too yellow please) - but ONLY if it's directly from the tap or licking it off my partner's body. A lot of piss porn shows people filling up glasses or other vessels and then drinking it - ZERO interest in that, somehow seems gross (yes, I'm sure that seems ironic to many). But having a woman or a man stream into my mouth, or having me piss on a woman and lick it off her tits ... very very hot to me when I'm in the mood.
And to the other original question, YES it is possible for guys (at least me) to pee while fully hard. The stream doesn't come out straight like normal - it kind of sprays, sometimes in unpredictable directions - but it still comes out. Maybe some guys can't, and that's led to the myth that it's not possible? Dunno.
Anyway, I suppose I'm one of the few who are interested (although as someone said above, not TOO yellow please - best when you've had lots of water to drink first). Personally, I find the idea very hot. Giving or receiving, with a male or female partner. Not something I'm in the mood for all or even most of the time, but every once in a while I get the urge.
And yes I like the idea of drinking it (again, not too yellow please) - but ONLY if it's directly from the tap or licking it off my partner's body. A lot of piss porn shows people filling up glasses or other vessels and then drinking it - ZERO interest in that, somehow seems gross (yes, I'm sure that seems ironic to many). But having a woman or a man stream into my mouth, or having me piss on a woman and lick it off her tits ... very very hot to me when I'm in the mood.
And to the other original question, YES it is possible for guys (at least me) to pee while fully hard. The stream doesn't come out straight like normal - it kind of sprays, sometimes in unpredictable directions - but it still comes out. Maybe some guys can't, and that's led to the myth that it's not possible? Dunno.
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I was in my early 20s, the day after a friend's wedding. Went to a porn shop, and was surprised to find a glory hole. Caught me off guard. Ended up blowing the guy in the next stall. He came, I didn't, but I still loved the feel of throbbing flesh in my mouth and the taste as he sprayed my tongue with cum. Full details in my story "A Hole New World."
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Hairier the better, but neatly trimmed is fine too. It would be hard for me to get excited for a woman with a shaved pussy, because to my middle-aged eyes a hairy one is womanly and a shaved one looks prepubescent. Hairs stuck in my throat a small price to pay. When I was sexually active before meeting my wife in the late 80s and early 90s, nearly all women still had bushes - yes, even women who wore fancy armless dresses bikinis and makeup and lipstick, who diligently shaved their legs and armpits. I'm happily married so it hasn't really affected me, but I'm still heartened to see what looks like the beginnings of a comeback.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
I have to admit that while I'm not turned on by crossdressing men very much, I am turned on by the idea of being with a genuine transgendered pre-op woman - that is, someone who lives and acts as a woman, but has a penis. If I were single I'd definitely be interested in that, but I'm also aware that trans women often get oversexualized, and wouldn't want to contribute to them feeling objectified. If I were to pursue something with a trans woman, I'd still want to start out by going on an actual date, same as with a cis woman, and get to know her a little bit. Then if we liked each other enough (either after the first date or several) that it led to sex, all the better.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Limited experience with actual cocks, though more with plastic ones ... for sucking, I think almost any size would be good. Big is nice because ... well, it's big. Small is nicer because you can get more of it (or more easily, all of it) in your mouth, which is probably great for the guy. For anal, I'd definitely want it not too thick, length probably unimportant.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
First (and only) same-sex oral was through a glory hole. Written up in my story "A Hole New World." I only gave, which was a little disappointing, but I'd received blowjobs (from women) many times and was thrilled by the chance to give one. Except for the setting and lack of reciprocation, I loved everything about it: the smell, the taste, the feel of it in my mouth, the sensation of pleasuring a man so much he would fill my mouth with his cum. It was everything I had hoped it would be, and I think back on it often.
Living Bi-cariously through Lush
Always known I was bi. I knew that I would like both cock and pussy, and I was right. Only sucked a dick once, through a glory hole, but it was glorious - and I have savored that memory for a lifetime. When I was sexually active as a single man, it was the late 80s and early 90s, the height of the AIDS epidemic. I was terrified to actually follow through on my gay fantasies, and stuck to women. Plus we didn't have the internet to meet other guys on.
Never been attracted to men and women in the same way, though. Hardly ever notice guys on the street, don't often find them attractive in that sense but I notice practically every woman. But I'm just as attracted to cock as I am to pussy.
When I was younger I had no interest in kissing or dating men. It was 90% about cock in my mouth, and 10% about cock in my ass, 0% my cock in someone else's ass. Funny, as I've reached middle age I've become more open minded. If I were single in today's world I'd want to date men and women equally - at least after an initial period where I'd be going for guys only to catch up. Now my guy fantasies are about 50% cock in my mouth, but also kissing, frotting, fucking in every possible position, everything.
Also, although I still use the label bisexual, now that I recognize that gender isn't binary I realize it's not technically accurate. I guess I call myself multisexual. Would love to be with a trans woman or man, pre-op or post-op, or an Intersex person. I also love the idea of finding someone attractive, and not knowing what goodies they have down below until I get my hand in their pants. (Using "they" and "their" deliberately here).
Never been attracted to men and women in the same way, though. Hardly ever notice guys on the street, don't often find them attractive in that sense but I notice practically every woman. But I'm just as attracted to cock as I am to pussy.
When I was younger I had no interest in kissing or dating men. It was 90% about cock in my mouth, and 10% about cock in my ass, 0% my cock in someone else's ass. Funny, as I've reached middle age I've become more open minded. If I were single in today's world I'd want to date men and women equally - at least after an initial period where I'd be going for guys only to catch up. Now my guy fantasies are about 50% cock in my mouth, but also kissing, frotting, fucking in every possible position, everything.
Also, although I still use the label bisexual, now that I recognize that gender isn't binary I realize it's not technically accurate. I guess I call myself multisexual. Would love to be with a trans woman or man, pre-op or post-op, or an Intersex person. I also love the idea of finding someone attractive, and not knowing what goodies they have down below until I get my hand in their pants. (Using "they" and "their" deliberately here).
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Quote by joe71Actually, I wasn't being fully honest there. The full truth is that not only do I not mind, it's a turn-on. I love that extra-tangy taste on a woman. Truth be told, I have a bit of fondness for watersports. Other being bi and liking naturally hairy women, that's my one fetish.
A little extra zestiness to the flavor down there? No problem! Better than bits of TP, as Pete said.
I keep pee out of my stories because I know it's a niche that turns many people off, but I do have some stories involving watersports that I will eventually finish and publish.
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I had a female friend from college who was probably not considered particularly attractive, but I liked her both as a friend and as a woman. Not a pretty face, but a pretty smile (isn't that more important), full-figured and really a lovely person. After college we had sex on a couple different occasions after drinking, and she was amazingly good. Lovely body, with wonderful curves and big soft tits, and she was an enthusiastic lover. I think she might be the only woman I've 69'ed to orgasm with, which I would do every other time I had sex with a woman, if I could.
I have to admit the thought crossed my mind about a foursome with her roommate and her boyfriend. Besides simply being hot, that would have checked off two bucket-list items for me: seeing two women together, and getting together with another guy for mutual pleasure. Based on her adventurousness and hints she had dropped at other times, somehow I have a feeling she might have gone for it. I should have pursued her more.
I have to admit the thought crossed my mind about a foursome with her roommate and her boyfriend. Besides simply being hot, that would have checked off two bucket-list items for me: seeing two women together, and getting together with another guy for mutual pleasure. Based on her adventurousness and hints she had dropped at other times, somehow I have a feeling she might have gone for it. I should have pursued her more.
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It would appear that I'm in the minority, but the thought of her with another woman has never really done anything for me. Now, watching her suck another cock,,,,,now that thought drives me wild. The thought at least....ODDLY enough, She WOULD love to watch me with another man! Oral only, but that is on HER wish list.
I can think of a way you could both get what you want.
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Quote by ComradePeteOMG, the thought of two lactating women together would really send me over the edge.
With one of our first kids, she became friends with another attractive breast feeding mother. So I come home one day and they are finishing up the babies, then they just sit around with me chatting with their breasts out air drying, and I'm supposed to play it cool and not notice or get hard (hint---I failed). Later that night I was licking her pussy and talking about how much I would like to find the two of them in bed together. She came like crazy all over my face, but it never happened.
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Yes, a couple times when I was younger. Once in the back of a sedan along a rural gravel road. Had to stop when we saw the lights of a vehicle approaching from a distance. Glad we did too, because it turned out to be a sheriff's vehicle. Hard to match the thrill of that time, but we had a much more satisfying one later, at an abandoned farm, in the back of a large station wagon.
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Her smile, first. That includes the eyes. Knowing a woman wants me is absolutely the hottest thing in a universe. Doesn't matter if she's pretty or plain. An average looking woman (or even one who might be considered unattractive by many) is completely beautiful when she's smiling and looking into my eyes. Women reading this, don't ever forget that.
Hair next. There are a lot of different hairstyles that can entice me, long short and in-between, but a woman's hair absolutely draws me.
As far as the body goes, I notice breasts first. No question. They do NOT have to be big, either. Even if they're small, I notice them. Obviously if nipples are erect that gets my attention. I try not to be obvious because I know women don't like guys staring at their tits, but I'm only human. Once when I was young, I went to an outdoor concert with a girlfriend (who was incredibly hot on her own) and it rained, treating me to the largest wet t-shirt display imaginable. My head almost exploded. Both of them, actually.
Beyond that, I love the curve of a woman's hips. There are so many different ways a woman can be shaped in that area, and they all attract me. I'm not an "ass man" or "leg man" per se (definitely a "boob man") but they are an important part of how the lower half of the body fits together and moves, so they are part of what makes a woman attractive for sure. Hell, even the roundness of a larger woman's belly can be attractive at times. I love women's bodies and curves.
One more thing: I have to admit I notice a woman's eyebrows. As a Gen-Xer I came of age and dated in the 80s and early 90s when women weren't shaving their pubes yet. Never once encountered a woman who shaved down there (nor was I interested in doing so). When i learned from a friend in college that eyebrow color usually matches bush color, I have to say a woman's eyebrows have always fueled my imagination about what lies down below (or would, if she stopped shaving). What can I say, I'm still a bush man. Maybe the bush is making a comeback? One can dream.
Hair next. There are a lot of different hairstyles that can entice me, long short and in-between, but a woman's hair absolutely draws me.
As far as the body goes, I notice breasts first. No question. They do NOT have to be big, either. Even if they're small, I notice them. Obviously if nipples are erect that gets my attention. I try not to be obvious because I know women don't like guys staring at their tits, but I'm only human. Once when I was young, I went to an outdoor concert with a girlfriend (who was incredibly hot on her own) and it rained, treating me to the largest wet t-shirt display imaginable. My head almost exploded. Both of them, actually.
Beyond that, I love the curve of a woman's hips. There are so many different ways a woman can be shaped in that area, and they all attract me. I'm not an "ass man" or "leg man" per se (definitely a "boob man") but they are an important part of how the lower half of the body fits together and moves, so they are part of what makes a woman attractive for sure. Hell, even the roundness of a larger woman's belly can be attractive at times. I love women's bodies and curves.
One more thing: I have to admit I notice a woman's eyebrows. As a Gen-Xer I came of age and dated in the 80s and early 90s when women weren't shaving their pubes yet. Never once encountered a woman who shaved down there (nor was I interested in doing so). When i learned from a friend in college that eyebrow color usually matches bush color, I have to say a woman's eyebrows have always fueled my imagination about what lies down below (or would, if she stopped shaving). What can I say, I'm still a bush man. Maybe the bush is making a comeback? One can dream.
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I don't necessarily have a problem with labels. Sure they can be used to pigeonhole people, but they can also be useful in describing what's going on, especially if it helps you define yourself in the face of a dominant culture that doesn't understand you.
I've always known I was bi. I mean, from when I became aware of sexuality and what men's and women's parts were used for, females held (and still hold) for me a magical pull that guys never would, but I knew I right then that I would have an interest in both. And it has never changed. When I heard the label "bisexual," I instantly knew it fit me, even though it means a lot of different things to a lot of people and has often been used as an epithet. That was liberating.
As far as being "purely" bi, which I suppose means you like both sexes in equal amounts and the same way? What the fuck even is that? That describes very nearly zero people. Heck, one week I find women hot and don't even think about cocks, then for a few days all I can think of is a hot shaft in front of my face and spurting cum in my mouth. Goes back and forth. Even people who like both (or all) sexes equally (and I might be closer to 50/50 than when i was young) don't like them in the same way. I'm attracted to women romantically and not just sexually, their faces and whole bodies entering into my fantasies. My fantasies about guys are much more about the cock. I don't think that's uncommon at all. And again, on some level I have always known that.
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When I was a young man I always fantasized about getting with an older woman (which to me meant 30s and 40s). I knew even then they are hornier than the guys their age, in some ways the only sexual match for a young guy. Never came up for me, unfortunately.
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Quote by icurOK2Cunt a la mode? Never tried it with ice cream, but I have tried it with whipped cream, and also with sparkling wine dripping down onto it. All good.
27 pages of posts and no one tried it with a dollip of ice cream. And none of you guys knew a woman who put a peppermint stick in there to surprise you. Is it better if she squezes your head between her thighs? In high school after X country practice one guy said, "You mean you're sticking your tounguue in there?" and his friend said, "if you aren't, I can steal her from you!.