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i name all my characters after one of our cats, past and present.

I love it.

For me the name must fit the character, but more important is to protect anonymity. Many of my characters are based on real people (male and female) whom I've known in my life, and with whom I've either had sex or wish I had. They're my fantasies, after all.

But I go to great lengths to make sure even the subjects wouldn't recognize themselves in my stories. I change BOTH the physical descriptions of the characters AND any circumstances in the setup from what really happened. And I change the names a minimum of TWO degrees from the original: if the person I have in mind is named "Beth" in real life, even "Deb" is out of the question as a substitute. So I might change the name from "Beth" to "Deb" and then to "Donna" before publishing - at an absolute minimum. The goal is to keep it so only I know who the real people are, and so that in the off chance they came here read the story, they wouldn't likely even know it was about them.

Mostly happy with my marriage (except that I crave gay sex too) and not looking to leave, but definitely closeted. Sounds like even with the Internet it can be tricky to find good partners. If I do finally start seeking men, I'd probably lean towards wanting friends with benefits (or at least someone with mutual affection) rather than random hookups with strangers. I suppose I'd start with the dating sites and see who I meet. Or even try meeting up with a Lush friend. There seem to be quite a few of us middle-aged bi guys on here.

I wasn't, but then I started reading the Gay Sauna thread.

Came of age in the 80s and 90s, height of HIV hysteria. I was too scared to try anything with another guy, let alone walk into a public setting like that. Sounds hot as hell though, especially after reading all those stories.

If or when I become sexually active with other men, I'd probably want want my encounters to be with guys I know, but the idea that places like these exist is incredibly stimulating. It would be so hot to have a total (and naked) stranger walk up to me with his cock fully erect, pin me against the wall, kiss me and go down on me.

Often, yes. When I was younger I could almost (oh so close, but not quite) suck myself, and came directly in my mouth regularly. Since I've gotten older and less flexible my open mouth is harder to hit now, but I still like to cum in my hand and slurp it down.

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I had my first about 3 years ago. My husband and I were having a threesome with another young woman. We were both giving him a bj when she just up and kissed me. Anyone who knows me,knows that a kiss is all it takes. Any way,I have been enjoying it ever since.

Might have seemed "out of the blue" to you for the other woman to kiss you, but I bet your husband was already thinking about it.

Same answer as the "fantasies you want to try" thread: mostly it's about sex with other men, because I've done almost everything with women that was on my bucket list (with the notable exception of an FFM threesome, but I'm not seeing that happening anytime soon).

My stories basically represent my unfulfilled fantasies, and yeah they very heavily lean towards bi/gay sex, because that's what I haven't done yet.

For me? 69, hands down. I realize that's not a favorite for most women, however.

Amongst penis-in-vagina positions, it really depends on what gives my partner the most pleasure. I've been with a woman who could cum consistently in the missionary position, every time. We might start in other positions, but always had to finish in missionary. I really came to learn how to move and thrust in ways that maximized her pleasure, and being on top gave me more ability to control my orgasm and time it so we'd be within seconds of each other. On the other hand, I've been with another woman who always had to be on top, grinding her clit against my pelvis, and having me suck madly on her tits. I've also been with women who needed things mixed up a bit, or were often searching for and sometimes challenged to find the position that would best get them off.

Haven't been with women who preferred reverse cowgirl or doggy, though. At least the women I've been with prefer kissing and eye contact most of the time.

In any event, always happy to oblige any of the above.

Honestly, although I haven't been with that many women, I have done a lot with them. Most of my fantasies involving women have been fulfilled, pretty much every position and setting that interests me. Of course the classic male fantasy, a FFM threesome, isn't something I've experienced, and I'm sure it would be nice.

On the other hand, I've got an awful lot of curiosity and unfulfilled fantasies involving other men. Short answer to the OP question is that my stories are getting to be a pretty good catalog of my unfulfilled fantasies.

Longer answer: I've only sucked a cock once, and would love to do it again under more mutual and pleasant circumstances. I'd love to jerk off and frot with another guy, potentially while kissing. I'd really love to 69 with another guy (my favorite position with women, so why not with guys too?), all the way to mutual orgasm. I'd like to try anal - giving and receiving - with a guy, preferably kissing deeply while one of us fills the other. And finally, snuggling up together, our body parts rubbing each other's, in post-orgasmic reverie. Same stuff I've enjoyed with women hundreds or thousands of times, but with a man.

Hard to choose. Probably a slight edge to giving, though ideally for me they're at the same time. I know others have said they have a hard time concentrating in a 69, and I know a lot of women aren't much into it. But to me it's so intimate and reciprocal to do little things to please your partner while they do little things to please you, and I also think it's easier to control the stimulation so we build to orgasm at about the same time. Honestly, I'd almost be willing to give up penis-in-vagina sex if I could 69 with a woman regularly. I like it that much.

With guys, giving is all I've experienced so far. I sure liked it a lot. Never received from a guy, though I've heard sometimes guys are better at it. 69 with a guy would be even more amazing, of course.

-6,-6, pretty close to a lot of the other people here.

Frankly, I'm surprised I didn't score a little more Libertarian on the Y axis, because I'm a pretty staunch civil libertarian. My score places me closer to Mandela than Chomsky, which surprises me a little, but I'm fine with landing somewhere between the two. I wonder who Rucker is?

None that I know of. Nor is it a big deal to me, as it seems to be with some guys.

There was one girlfriend I wish I'd been able to, not so much so I could take her virginity per se, but just because she was so unbelievably hot and I simply wanted her. She would grind her clit against my hard cock - through clothes - when we would make out, which made me want her so bad. But she was several years younger than me (still legal) and simply not ready, and that's okay too.

IN, of course! So much more pleasurable to cum inside a warm orifice, versus out in the open air with my own hand doing the work (which I can do anytime). I mean, it's not even close. This wouldn't even be a question except for the fact porn has conditioned us by showing men cumming on women. But they only do that to prove that the guy came, for visual purposes - not because it's even remotely as enjoyable as cumming inside someone.

Yes, absolutely. When I was younger it was a scary time to be bi, and I didn't experiment much. At that time my fantasies were just about the physical act of sucking another guy, but that seems to have shifted over the decades. If I were single today, I'd be open to dating men as well as having sex with them. Oral would still be the sexual highlight for me, but I'd want to try everything, and I'd definitely want to experience both cut and uncut. Besides oral, the idea of making out with a guy while we stroke each other is incredibly hot too.

My knee-jerk answer would usually be "my latest one." As of today that would be Midlife Renewal, Part Three: https://www.lushstories.com/stories/bisexual/midlife-renewal-part-three-blow-bi-blow

But while I'm very pleased with how that series is progressing, I think so far my favorite story (which also means it was sexiest to me) has been The Reunion: https://www.lushstories.com/stories/bisexual/the-reunion-13.

By the way, what a great list of hot stories this forum post makes. Authors' picks! I am going to have to work my way through the wonderful stories listed here.

"Joe" because I try to write from the perspective of an Average (bisexual) Joe.

"71" from an Eighties-era George Carlin routine. He was talking about "69," and proposed numbers for some other sexual acts. "68" is you do me, and I'll owe you one. "71" is 69 with two fingers up your ass.

Because porn is primarily produced by and for (mostly straight) men. Full stop.

Personally, being bi I find both really hot. Although I think there are staggering data-collection errors behind the widely-quoted 5-10% figures, I recognize that I'm in the minority.

Skinny dipping with a group.

God I hope so. I like a full, soft, lush bush - on both men and women. I came of age in the Eighties and Nineties, and have NEVER been with anyone who was fully shaved, or even trimmed beyond the bikini line. As late as the early Nineties pubic hair was still normal. Contrary to what a lot of people seem to think now, women didn't suddenly start growing it out in the Sixties and Seventies, nor did they stop right afterward. Every girlfriend I ever had shaved her pits, legs and the edges of her triangle for swimsuit season or wear a dress, but NEVER mowed the whole thing down. Just wasn't done. I can live with the occasional pube stuck in the back of my throat. Worth it.

Satisfied with my six inches. Would I rather be taller, or have a different eye color, or skin color? No: I'm happy with myself the way I am. These are things we absolutely don't get to choose, so why obsess over it? Hell, even my six was too long with one woman in certain positions that I like. But then again she hadn't had kids, so who knows? It doesn't really matter anyway.

Run what you brung, I say. Seems to matter a lot more to most men than to most women. Think about it, guys: don't most of us enjoy women with a wide range of breast sizes? Sure, big'uns get attention, but when it comes down to it size is not the most important thing. If anything, variety is a good thing. I've been with a woman who was amply endowed but boring in bed, and another whose tits were probably smaller than mine but she was an animal in bed. Guess whom I'd rather sleep with again, given the chance? Size is Just. Not. That. Important. I'm sure it's similar for women and cock size.

Stop worrying, and maximize your enjoyment with body you've got.

Sure. Hard is good too.

Something I've managed to avoid the last few years. Unlikely to get caught, but the consequences are higher than they might have been 30 years ago. Used to fairly regularly when I was in my twenties though. I worked with some real hotties, and just couldn't avoid the temptation from time to time.

Off.

I'm cut, FWIW, but curious. All cocks are hot, but I've been having a lot of fantasies about uncut ones lately.

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Sure will don't need wife more the merrier

Haha, I like your thinking. Would love to help a woman suck a dick, but I'd still suck it with or without her there.

Just over 6". Pics in my profile.

Well, my profile clearly states "bisexual," certainly not trying to fool anyone. Yes, very open to playing with other guys, and that's what most (not all) of my stories are about. Doesn't mean I like men more than women, but I've had thousands of great sexual encounters with women, doing just about everything possible, and only one mediocre encounter with a guy, doing not very much. So my a lot of my fantasy energy goes into the things I haven't done ... which would mean lots of things I would do with men given the chance.

Porn shows guys pulling out and cumming on women's faces or bodies, and there's a serious reason for that: to prove the guy actually came. But in the real world, cumming inside a warm, wet orifice is infinitely more physically pleasurable than outside.

For some guys, I'm sure it's a control or denigration thing (which, by the way, has zero appeal to me personally). But now that porn has normalized it for 40 years, I think a lot of guys want to do it because that's what they've seen done.

I've enjoyed toys back there from time to time. Would I let my partner peg me? I think I'd rather have my ass filled with a warm, fleshy, living cock than be pegged with a cold plastic fake one.