A couple of people have suggested that it’s about dominance. My response is that if it’s about dominance to YOU, then you’re going to assume that’s true for everyone.

But it isn’t. Dominating someone, or being dominated in any way, is one of the biggest turnoffs I can imagine. I’m not judging. It’s just how I’m wired.

And yet, I’m still interested in anal. Giving and receiving. To me it’s about pleasure, not dominance. Sex can be about being caring and kind even when you’re drilling someone’s ass.

Despite taking pride in my sexual knowledge, I wasn't aware of this term. Thanks for the education.

Do ass cheeks (no anal entry) count as intracural, or only the actual thighs? If the former, I have a story that features it: Midlife Renewal: Dreaming and Creaming

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Thank you for not thinking I’m weird. 😀 I used to sit and write top to bottom in one sitting.

Weird?! More like awesome! I can't imagine being able to do that. It usually takes me weeks and weeks to get inspired enough to finish a full first draft. Then I seem to go into binge-editing mode for a week or so (just did - latest story is in review right now), revising over and over again, before I'm ready to publish.

Re: the competition ... I think I have my idea. Remarkably, I came up with this one just a few days ago, before the comp was announced. The category is either Cheating or Mind Control, depending on exactly how it plays out. My initial vision wasn't necessarily obsessive, but 7500 words will give me more than enough room to make it so.

EDIT: after getting the thing outlined, I don’t see it going under Mind Control, “just” Cheating. But it will be obsessive.

Been light on Lush the last couple months. Summer, lots of personal stuff going on ... BUT I finally have a draft done of my next Midlife Renewal chapter. After several gay-extravaganza MMM chapters, this one will be MFM, with the action mostly female focused.

And the next chapter after that will be my first Lesbian story, and also my first with a female protagonist. That one might take a while longer, because I really want to get it right. All too often when I read stories told from an ostensibly female perspective, you can still just tell when it was written by a guy. There won't be long fingernails, 36D tits, gobs of squirt or twerking asses in this one. I'm sure it won't be perfect, but I want to avoid a male-gaze viewpoint as much as I can as a male.

And then there's the Obsession competition. I have at least two naughty ideas kicking around, both male-bisexual because that's how I usually roll. One is in the Money category, the other Cheating. I may have to write out an outline and a few hundred words of each before I can decide. Both are good story ideas that I have come up with in the last few weeks.

I have the same problem. Tried a couple times earlier this week to create covers. Thought it might just be a delay, but it's been a couple of days, so I tried again a couple of times tonight. None have shown up. Manually editing on my own computer for now.

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Sure it is

FYI, I once made a change to a competition entry (Going with the Flow, in the 2021 Proud and Kinky contest) after the competition was over, and it was removed from the official roster of the comp.

I don't think that happens if you later change categories, add a cover image or assign it to a series (all of which I have done without issue after comps ended), but might happen if you change the body of the story, since it is no longer as you entered it.

Having turning fifty shortly before I joined, I recognized that the longtime fantasies bouncing around my head weren't going away. Except they would go away - forever - when I die, unless I started publishing them. So my initial motivation was simply to get my sexual vision - bisexuality practiced freely by people who are kind to each other, both in and out of bed - out into the world. Not much of a legacy, but it's something.

Once I started doing that, however, I found that I attracted a small following of readers, mostly also middle-aged men, with whom my ideas resonate. And I'll admit that the resultant Likes and positive comments now motivate me too, as have a couple of RRs and top-ten finishes. Not that those happen frequently, but when a competition rolls around, I do put in my best effort.

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Yes, that is a better way of putting it.

More sexy photos from The Hunting Wives:

Love this show, which is at least a half-decent crime drama, but what makes it sizzle is the rampant bisexuality (amongst the women, anyway). I enjoy TV and movies with straight or gay/lesbian characters getting it on ... but characters enjoying the differing delights of both men and women are even hotter for me, as a bisexual person.

Having been in Netflix's #1 spot for most of the time since it was released, this show has gotten plenty of attention: for the bad wig, the hateability of almost every single character, the stereotypes of both the Texans and the Bostonians (as well as pastors, small-town cops, you name it), the mid-season transition from sleazy and steamy to the constantly shifting Whodunnit (without losing the sleazy and steamy), the plot holes, the loose ends...

Despite the flaws, ever since Margo and Sophie first met in the bathroom, I've been captivated by their escalating intimacy and their volatile relationship, as well as by the sexuality between other characters, including that juicy pegging that Callie gives her Sheriff hubby. Seeing the depiction of Margo's relationships with her various partners, each of whom fulfills her in different ways that aren't just sexual ... that, to me, is the pinnacle of bisexuality's rarely fulfilled potential. I cannot think of a TV series that's made me hard so many times.

Anyone else been checking this one out?

I fully support you on this. Cross-dressing might be fun gender play, but ultimately it’s just play - if you’re still living as a man. Being actually real-deal trans is a different level of commitment

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I hear there is a trend of not shaving or trimming anymore., like hairy armpits and legs too. ewwww that is for guys ffs

i like to wax...or at least shave. I would consider permenant hair removal. when i win the lottery

Have heard that rumor for fifteen years now, with precious little evidence that the tide has turned.

Mid-late fifties and over the past decade I don’t always get hard like I used to. Sometimes when I jerk off, I’m not fully rigid, but still cum just fine.

I tried viagra a couple of times, years ago. Didn’t seem to make much difference, but maybe worth trying again.

I think that when I do finally seek a male sexual partner (as looks increasingly likely before I turn 60, though I can’t elaborate right now), I’d want to l to find a fellow aging guy who’s patient and tolerant about that kind of thing, as I know I will be. As long as we can jerk and suck each other off, I’ll be thrilled.

That said, it’s intermittent. I still OFTEN get hard as a rock. Apropos to this being the LGBTQ+ forum, this happens most often when I’m watching bi/gay porn or thinking about man-man action. I’ll always be Bi, but maybe I’m getting gayer with age, which I’m totally fine with. In other words, I may still be able to top you.

No preset limit, BUT I don't think I could likely relate sexually to someone who's eighteen. I did catch myself ogling an eighteen-year-old girl a little too openly when I was forty, but that was a very long time ago.

It's not a hard rule, but the classic half-plus-seven guideline has always seemed like a good ballpark for an age range I consider attractive. That would put the lower bound around mid-thirties ... and the upper limit around 100. Yikes! OK, I can be open-minded.

So you’re asking on a very horny smut site where to find gay guys who are not horny but still want to chat? Do I have that right?

You might want to find a chat site that is not as sexually oriented. Maybe Reddit?

Congratulations to you both! Well-deserved in both cases, both excellent avatars.

As for my own flaming avatar. I intend to keep it even if Pride Month is over. Wouldn’t have done it without this thread, so thanks to ALL contributors for so much inspiration!

It’s because we live in a fake democracy in which both parties bend over for the plutocrats that actually rule us. Sure, the Republicons are better at spewing hate and grooming us all for a near future filled with increasing atrocities, but since when did the Dems actually do something that shows they care about real working people?* They both take money from the same overlords. Divide and conquer, folks. As long as they can make us see each other as the enemy …

* Answer: 1993. And working people have noticed. That’s how we’ve ended up in this new level of Hell with the Down button stuck in the ON position.

OMG, never experienced this, nor did I realize until this very moment that it could be a thing. Now I want to! Sounds amazing.

This effect will definitely make its way into my next MFF story.

My results are as expected too. Although my Bisexuality, my love for hairy pussy and my pee fetish make me an apparent outlier, and while I support open relationships and public sex, I have no interest in dominating, submitting to, degrading, being degraded by, controlling or being controlled by others, not even as play. I’m not judging others who are into those things, to be clear, as long as everyone freely consents, but I just don’t find them sexy at all. So apparently I'm pretty vanilla. Fine. I’m satisfied with this:

90% Voyeur
84% Non-monogamist
70% Vanilla
43% Exhibitionist
33% Experimentalist
16% Submissive
8% Dominant
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Degradee
0% Little
0% Masochist
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
0% Sadist
0% Slave
0% Switch

Someone asked me this in a PM the other day. My response was John Cusack or Maggie Gyllenhall.

But come to think of it, conversely I'd just as gladly go down on Joan Cusack, or on Jake Gyllenhall.

Also a recent pic of Jean-Luc Picard has me thinking I'd gladly blow Patrick Stewart too. Probably a better chance with him than with Kristen Stewart above, who I'm sure would prefer the Lioness, but I wouldn't turn her down in the off chance she'd let me.

Speaking of Enterprise commanders, I'd still do William Shatner, even in his nineties.

I could do this all day, going through the degrees of separation between hot celebrities. Speaking of which, Kevin Bacon is probably tasty.

It’s far from secret on Lush, but my biggest secret from the rest of the world is my bisexuality. And related to that, the fact that I write about it on Lush.

I’m Bisexual and have no interest whatsoever in cross-dressing or otherwise acting feminine. You will find that many bi guys are into those things and many are not. That said, I’d do it - and find it sexy - if my partner was into it.

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Most of them don't. They say they are bi because of fear, or boredom. Most bisexual men especially the married ones, will always crave cock, and a woman does not have a cock, so therefore a bisexual man needs to admit that he's gay instead.

Attitudes like this make the problem of Bisexual Erasure even worse.

While it is true that some men who are actually gay start their coming-out process by first claiming bisexuality, that does NOT mean everyone who identifies as bi is on that path. You are massively overgeneralizing from minimal data. If anything, the fact that your belief is so widespread discourages real bi men from identifying as such (publicly and/or in their own minds), because they know a lot of people won’t believe them.

It doesn’t matter how much cock you suck, or want to suck, or how much you love having another man squirt hot white cum in your ass. Are you still sexually an d romantically attracted to women? Do you enjoy sneaking a peek down a woman’s cleavage and imagine yourself suckling on those sweet teats? Do you love the taste of pussy and running your tongue through a woman’s succulent folds?

Every gay guy I know gives a hard pass on all three of those things. Conversely, if you like those things, then Bi-town is your final destination, and it is not just a stop on the road to Gayville. Sexuality-erasing bigotry notwithstanding.

In my five years on Lush, I have met quite a few fellow middle-aged guys who find themselves craving dick more and more, but still love pussy. We fucking exist. Stop negating us.

After many years of only rarely penetrating my ass with a toy, I’ve started doing it again, and have recently given myself prostate ejaculations three separate times. And while I was more or less right when I said above that it wasn’t quite the same as a true orgasm, it was really fucking pleasurable and more than I remembered. Plus it made the actual orgasm more intense when I did finally stroke that out of myself.

Highly recommended! And just enjoy the pleasure. Don’t worry whether it “makes” you gay or bi (although for me that is not a problem).

I've published a couple of Midlife Renewal chapters this month and while it's been fun to write the testosterone-addled, four-chapter rental Cabin sequence, I'm ready to bring some femininity back into the story already. While I know what I want to happen in the next 2-3 chapters, I've been struggling with how I want to write it. Sure, I know the basic sequences of events and sexual choreography, but any keymonkey can write about connecting body parts with each other. How do I keep the writing fresh, emotionally involving, and maybe even a little surprising or suspenseful, especially with characters that are already well-developed?

Fortunately, I went on a long dog walk today, and while I was listening to music and struggling with the above thoughts, unrelated clevery, pithy chapter titles suddenly started popping into my head. I had to pause my walk a couple of times and write them down. Some are better than others, but I'm now pretty sure that the planned mall-chase scene in my action-heavy Joe Dick federal agent series will be entitled "Mall of Contusion."

Many of these new title ideas also spawned story ideas to back them up, including a series that will be my first time writing from a feminine perspective.

And then, the act of thinking that through inspired some additional ideas for the next Midlife Renewal chapter that deepen the developing relationships and the story arc of that series. Not the first time I've found my writing blocked, and ultimately that the way to unblock it was not to push harder, but to find another way around.

Dick Job was my longest, at 8900 words. Despite placing in the Top Ten of a competition and becoming a Recommended Read, it's barely had 4000 views over the years.

Contrast that with my ongoing Midlife Renewal series, which I started not long after Dick Job, is now past 40,000 words in total, and is unlikely to win any accolades. I've taken care to keep the chapters bite-sized, some of them shorter than two thousand words, and any of which can be read standalone. That way, the reader can jump in anywhere and ... uh, enjoy one or several, coming back for more when the urge strikes again. Consequently, every single chapter that is more than three months old exceeds Dick Job in viewership.

Definitely a lesson in there about submitting long stories.

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Golden Showers are awesome. I like the feeling of the warm trickle of piss on me. I have had boners & pissed on myself which felt awesome. There was times that i pissed in my hand & rubbed my own warm piss on my nipples. Ok it might sound weird but to each my own,

Let’s just say it doesn’t sound weird to me.

Joined Lush.

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The exhaust pipe doesn't look very comfortable😕

Well, make sure not to do it right after the car has run. Wait an hour or two until it reaches a nice temperature.

Might surprise myself with one, someday.