Quote by Dudealicious
Grabs a seat next to Sprite and hands her a drink
Good seats darlin'!
thanks for dirtying up our lovely wine bar, dude - LOL - so much for trying to be classy!
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i had no idea...learn something new every day. now, where's that paring knife...? ;)
you mean you missed that discussion? girl, you so need to get educated... ok, funny, but this subject (the psychology of bdsm) is near and dear to my heart - expect a chime in somewhere in the near future... in the meantime, i will throw this out there. Psychology is the correct term to use, here - those outside of it, i know this for fact, look at it as pleasure and pain, physical sensations, and yes, sensation is very important, but in my view, that's just a part of it. it's the mental and emotional elements, even more so then in straight sex, that play a large part of bdsm.
let's take spanking, for example - it's not just the feel of the paddle as it caresses the flesh, the sharp sting of pain as it strikes, the heat of pain as it spreads through your bottom... it's the emotion of the moment, that feeling of being dirty, of being punished, humiliation, LOVE, yes, love or affection, that someone cares enough to hurt you, to punish you, that feeling of loss of control, of being made to be bad, god, i wish i could explain this better, as i said, i will try, but it's something you either feel or don't - not everyone gets it, bdsm or D/s relationships, or what have you...
btw, here's an eye opener - a lot of subs who are into D/s? it's all about having control rather than giving it up. we have a CHOICE, we choose our partner, who we decide to relinquish control to, we trust them, GOOD D/s relationships have a serious of red/yellow/and green lights in them - certain things that we can trust our Dom/mes to either do to us, be careful about, or NEVER subject us to. and we have the ability to put a stop to anything that makes us uncomfortable with the use of a safe word. total control over what is done to us and, for many of us, that is very important - i have been in relationships where i lost control, where it was taken from me - i think, because of this, i am more drawn to elements of bdsm, not despite it. it's good to know that you have a Dom/me who will take care of you, look out for your safety, protect you and yes, sexually stimulate you as well.
ok, that's it for now. back later for more insights
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Quote by WellMadeMale
Discovery Channel's Shark Week brings my primary irrational fear into focus.
Being eaten alive.
Sharks
Gators
Bears
Lions
Oh my
I seriously doubt this will ever happen, but this is the stuff of my nightmares.
The only possible realistic scenario or situation which I fear is to find myself in a relationship with someone I'd rather not be in. I can handle being alone. Being with someone in the same house still feeling alone - sucks.
Been there before. A few times.
that WMM will someday leave Lush and my unrequited love will continue to be unrequited for all of eternity *cries*
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we need to have some of those finger sandwiches... and a bowl of cocaine *grins* yeah, stripper clubs, i mean, there are/were quite a few in SF, but i didn't really have any reason to go in... usually i was out dancing at clubs or doing warehouse party/rave stuff and the peeps i was hanging with weren't into titty bars and such... at least not when i was old enough to go -the crowd i hung with when i was underage... well, yeah, maybe, but Oakland could be a little... seedier.
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Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by sprite
i'd feel comfortable at a real burlesque show, while at a strip club, i think i'd just feel a little dirty?
What? You've never been to a strip club???
How did I miss this key fact in the time that I've known you? That means more dirty points for me... I might be winning now.
*blushes* umm... well... i might have gone once, but that was cause one of the girls invited me in, and to be honest, i felt really uncomfortable and it's not really my thing... ok, so you just pulled ahead. gonna have to have a dirty weekend now to tie it up... and i have been to a bdsm club, so does that count?
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well, not being someone who goes to a lot of strip clubs, my only real knowledge of them is probably flawed, but i kind of see them as... serious. like a the girls are serious, the guys are serious, it's all business? this is just my perception of them. burlesque, on the other hand, seems kind of fun. like dressing up - given the choice, that's what i'd go with - dressing up in pretty, maybe even a little campy, costumes - corsets, boas, boots, maybe even little hats? maybe little skits and... i don't know, it sounds more entertaining, like it's more than just a show for guys to jerk off too... one of my favorite musicians, btw, is named Emelie Autumn, and i got to see her twice, and her show is basically a burlesquse show - no nudity, but corsets and garter and stalkings and adult themed - in between songs there are litte skits and all the girls have personas and its just FUN as well as sexy and i think i'd feel comfortable at a real burlesque show, while at a strip club, i think i'd just feel a little dirty?
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Quote by HunterNoel
Ewwww that just sounds gross. These are the fetishes I dont get, why would someone want to do this to someone else. If some guy started pissing on me he would not be using his dick for anything any time soon
and yet, there are those of us who find it a complete turn on. it's not gross, it's just not your thing
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Quote by DirtyMartiniQuote by sprite
- trust me, we just don't churn this stuff out while sitting on the toilet, it's a labor of love,
I'm sorry...what did you say???
ok, i should have said SOME of us don't. Alan is always the exception in every conversation here.
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Quote by DUBOIS15801
It seems to me that GIRLS (and some YOUNG WOMEN) tend to want/need lets just call it DRAMA .... if they are not having problems they want someone who is .... my guess is your are both YOUNG .....give her space and time .... meet new people ...enjoy and experience and learn .... let life show you its many wonders .... grow and ripen .
for the record, this applies to BOYS and some young MEN too.
don't just pin it on us girls. trust me on this, i've seen it on both sides of the fence while on Lush. 
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Quote by tender_cowboy
Many of the stories here are well written with a good story line and great details. I honestly enjoy reading a good story, but some have no story line and same old stuff.
For many writers I think the scoring they get is no more then an ego trip and them same people will use any means other then a good story to get a score. Personally I would rather see the score system go away but leave the comment section. I agree with one curious cat not all high rated stories are worth the read time.
damn straight it's an ego trip. I mean, seriously, it's a good feeling to get praise. also, for the record, it's an incentive to write more, to improve, to try to make the next one better and sexier - something i think those of you who read, can appreciate? i mean, seriously, i love to write, but if i just put something up and didn't get some sort of feed back, i think i'd get a little discouraged after a while... and since we're on this subject, come one guys, if you think voting is dumb, but think comments are good? comment! i see stories here that have thousands of viewings and only a handful of votes or comments - and i'm talking some quality stories here! it only takes a minute, and it might just make somebody's day to know that someone appreciated all the hard work they put in - trust me, we just don't churn this stuff out while sitting on the toilet, it's a labor of love, but still, it's a lot of time and effort, and it's a part of why this site is sooooo good.
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Quote by DirtyMartini
Of course, I may be dumb...but...
Why are you asking other people if you should let your girlfriend pee on you?
Like I said, I may not know much...but, seems sort of like a personal thing that's probably not best decided in the Lush forum...
But, what do I know???
yeah, really, the question should be.... 'any of you girl willing to piss on me'?
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Quote by rudyP34
Maybe it should be mandatory to write a message when requesting friendship. You click "Ask to become a friend", you're taken to the message writing screen, you write a little something that explains why and then you send the request. I'm sure most of the people hate random friend requests. Not me... I was requested once in 10 months, and I promptly accepted. Wait.. twice!
The way things work right now, either you just empty-request someone, or you have to send a private message separately, and in some cases, I assume some people get a lot of messages and requests, and at some point, the two become dissociated. By combining requesting and messaging, it makes it easier for people to sort out those who just add people randomly, or because they have a hot avatar.
good idea
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Quote by lafayettemisterQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by sprite
ok, Doll - i gave you a glowing endorsement... can i get those nude photos back now?
It's too late... I already sold them to Hustler. You'll be appearing in their September issue of the photo-spread 'Dirty Disney Divas of Cyberpsace'... Uhm, they photoshopped a couple of dwarves into them too but I figure it just makes it all kinkier, right?
PS. Thanks to everyone for the love! XO
Can the photoshop a pic of me in there with Sprite? The 8th dwarf, Stumpy! lol
Congrats Ashleigh... if anyone deserves it, you do!
i thought the 8th dwarf was Biggo Eggo! *gigglefit*
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Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by sprite
ok, Doll - i gave you a glowing endorsement... can i get those nude photos back now?
It's too late... I already sold them to Hustler. You'll be appearing in their September issue of the photo-spread 'Dirty Disney Divas of Cyberpsace'... Uhm, they photoshopped a couple of dwarves into them too but I figure it just makes it all kinkier, right?
PS. Thanks to everyone for the love! XO
sadly enough, the dwarves are taller (and cuter!) than me!
and hey! you promised an OCTOBER spread! dirty lying liar who tell lies! *giggles* my god, you DO know i have a folder just for Disney porn, right? sounds perfect for me! Sexer-ella, baby! ps - i'm only 40,000 veiws behind you! ROFL
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First off, as Doll pointed out, she didn't borrow my tiara - she ripped it from my head (as well as a hunk of hair!) while cackling maniacally
second of all, on behalf of girls who are both hot looking and can write hot stories, a frying pan to the head of Mr Martini
thirdly, i agree - some sort of special recognition should go out to those who hit 100,000 views. I think Doll should be given the title of 'Personal Bimbo to Her Royal Spriteness'.
ok, in all honesty, congrats, Ash. You got those views for a reason - your wit, your intelligence, your talent, and your sexiness. And, for anyone not lucky enough to get to know the girl behind the name, she's one of the sweetest woman i know here and i am humbled by her friendship.
ok, Doll - i gave you a glowing endorsement... can i get those nude photos back now?
second of all, on behalf of girls who are both hot looking and can write hot stories, a frying pan to the head of Mr Martini
thirdly, i agree - some sort of special recognition should go out to those who hit 100,000 views. I think Doll should be given the title of 'Personal Bimbo to Her Royal Spriteness'.
ok, in all honesty, congrats, Ash. You got those views for a reason - your wit, your intelligence, your talent, and your sexiness. And, for anyone not lucky enough to get to know the girl behind the name, she's one of the sweetest woman i know here and i am humbled by her friendship.
ok, Doll - i gave you a glowing endorsement... can i get those nude photos back now?
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Quote by nicolaQuote by sprite
cause it would be totally cool!
Why would you want to be associated with a soap company?
I wonder how much they want for their domain?
Very convincing Alan, I see your photoshop skills are on par with mine!
omg, you know Lush? *happy sighs* SONIC DEATH MONKEY! *giggles* every xmas i stock up on snow fairy !
