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Our perception on Lush - how we are perceived here ?

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Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Quote by Jen_
OMG, Lush has ruined my perception of reality lol


I KNOW! You end up seeing the world through Lush-colored glasses and wondering what people's secret lives are really like!

I am honestly not sure how I'm perceived here. That's a good Forum question: how is the person above you perceived on Lush?
Jimwillhavefun
Old Bag Of Bones
I can't speak for anyone on here. But if I had to guess.

The Mods find me disruptive.

People that look at my stories find me having bad taste in story categories.

Friends that have actually talked to me more than a few words find me to be intelligent and funny.

Basically the same person you would meet in real life.

Remember to check out a few of my stories. You can find them here.

https://www.lushstories.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories


For those who like a change and prefer something a little more PG, check out my stories on Storiespace.
https://www.storiesspace.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories
LillyLush
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Jimwillhavefun
I can't speak for anyone on here. But if I had to guess.
The Mods find me disruptive.
People that look at my stories find me having bad taste in story categories.
Friends that have actually talked to me more than a few words find me to be intelligent and funny.
Basically the same person you would meet in real life.



So Jim has added some value to the original question and now it may be responded as:

How we are perceived here at Lush among the Mods, Friends and other members ?
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Katherine
Nerdzilla
Quote by LillyLush
I think its interesting to know how we are perceived here at Lush as compared to our real lives.

In real life, I'm very disciplined, demanding and confident... that's requirement of my job also... Other than that I'm very friendly, extrovert, trustworthy and outgoing type of girl. Whereas, here at Lush I think I'm perceived as quiet, introvert and a high profile sex maniac lol... Well that's what I've felt.

So how about you? Tell about yourself, your Lush friends and I think this would make mutual interaction easier here smile


I have no idea how I'm perceived here at Lush. I think I'm pretty under the radar. In real life, I'm the same. Stubborn, quiet around new people unless it's for work, open hearted but slow to trust, adventurous, horrible liar/prankster. lol

On an unrelated note, I'll forgo the zipped lip just this once on what goes on behind closed Lush doors. Jimwillhavefun, the only mention I've seen of your membername amongst mods was mine. I mentioned one of your avatars made me happy. ;D
Jimwillhavefun
Old Bag Of Bones
Quote by Delphi


I have no idea how I'm perceived here at Lush. I think I'm pretty under the radar. In real life, I'm the same. Stubborn, quiet around new people unless it's for work, open hearted but slow to trust, adventurous, horrible liar/prankster. lol

On an unrelated note, I'll forgo the zipped lip just this once on what goes on behind closed Lush doors. Jimwillhavefun, the only mention I've seen of your membername amongst mods was mine. I mentioned one of your avatars made me happy. ;D


I am glad I could make you happy. I am sure that it may not have been spoken, but the thought has crossed their minds, Oh no its one his boring stories again. LOL.

Its ok really. I don't mind. I like boring people. If I can put them to sleep, its easier getting their clothes off. (wink wink) Lets talk sometime and let me bore you.

Remember to check out a few of my stories. You can find them here.

https://www.lushstories.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories


For those who like a change and prefer something a little more PG, check out my stories on Storiespace.
https://www.storiesspace.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories
Unknown User
I behave the same way as I do in RL. I can't be bothered to switch on a persona online to be liked. I'm a confident punkrock chick, blunt, brutally honest, outgoing, a sex fiend and chatty. I don't suffer from shy syndrome. I don't take people feelings into consideration. That's what I get told which is true so I just say, thankyou. It's a compliment to be told what you alreay know.

On lush, many have told me I'm straight to the point, sarcastic, funny and last but not least bitchy but I correct them and say that I'm cunty. Cause there's a difference between cunt and bitch. Oh, and for some unknown reason cyber humans tell me that they hate that I use the word cunt, which again their feelings are their problem.


If you want me to know what you think of me, quote me so I can read and maybe have laugh.


My thoughts on lush users on my friend list? Only two users have allowed me to get to know them in a personal manner. I say allowed because we spoke about everything, not just sex. Others, I don't know as well because we couldn't careless to cross those bounds out of just a cyber sex session.
Lush users as a whole--some I'd like to speak w/ but many assume I dislike them. Again, their feelings are not my problem.

I don't have an opinion on other lush users unless I've personally told them in chatrooms.
ZigDust
Active Ink Slinger
The only thing I could think of.....

My profile picture really is me but it's 8 years old. So I'd day some people here think I have a great body. Not quite so much these days!
Guest
Lurker
how would I even know that?
Guest
Lurker
My guess is most people don’t care enough about me to have an opinion. Those who do probaly think I’m a jerk.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by LovingSadist
My guess is most people don’t care enough about me to have an opinion. Those who do probaly think I’m a jerk.


I perceive you as a person who is capable of doing very mean things but in a nice way.
Guest
Lurker
Quote by Magical_felix


I perceive you as a person who is capable of doing very mean things but in a nice way.


I don’t think I do mean thing very often, but that’s really up to the eye of the aggrieved party. Usually if I do something mean it’s mean top to bottom.
trinket
Convict
I think I’m perceived as a whiny little troublemaker by quite a few people. Shut up Jack. I’m actually not, what makes it seem that way is that I retaliate against bullshit, while others just accept it; bullies on the forums and object when I believe I’ve been treated differently to others. I’m not complaining, only saying how I think I’m perceived.

Because of that, I think some don’t try to get to know the real me which is so far from the above, it’s ridiculous. Too many people listen to gossip instead of trying to get to know others for themselves.
Jimwillhavefun
Old Bag Of Bones
Quote by LovingSadist

I don’t think I do mean thing very often, but that’s really up to the eye of the aggrieved party. Usually if I do something mean it’s mean top to bottom.


You are not mean in my opinion. You are like me in that you have an opinion and you are not afraid to use it. Sometimes it rubs people the wrong way. Sucks to be them. I am personally not here to be anyone's best friend. I am here to write and learn to be better at it and speak to people that want to talk to me. Sometimes we hurt peoples feelings. Too bad, we are on an adult website for adults.


Quote by trinket
I think I’m perceived as a whiny little troublemaker by quite a few people. Shut up Jack. I’m actually not, what makes it seem that way is that I retaliate against bullshit, while others just accept it; bullies on the forums and object when I believe I’ve been treated differently to others. I’m not complaining, only saying how I think I’m perceived.

Because of that, I think some don’t try to get to know the real me which is so far from the above, it’s ridiculous. Too many people listen to gossip instead of trying to get to know others for themselves.


My opinion of you is you are a funny lady that isn't afraid to speak her mind. Nothing wrong with that. Like I said above, we are on an adult website for adults. Deal with it.

Hmmm... I seem to be noticing a trend here. You are both on my friend list. Maybe I like people like myself.

Remember to check out a few of my stories. You can find them here.

https://www.lushstories.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories


For those who like a change and prefer something a little more PG, check out my stories on Storiespace.
https://www.storiesspace.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories
PrincessC
Active Ink Slinger
I doubt anybody has much of a perception of me either way. I quite like it like that.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Quote by trinket
I think I’m perceived as a whiny little troublemaker by quite a few people. Shut up Jack. I’m actually not, what makes it seem that way is that I retaliate against bullshit, while others just accept it; bullies on the forums and object when I believe I’ve been treated differently to others. I’m not complaining, only saying how I think I’m perceived.

Because of that, I think some don’t try to get to know the real me which is so far from the above, it’s ridiculous. Too many people listen to gossip instead of trying to get to know others for themselves.


I think you are sharp and funny and have a low tolerance for bullshit, and I think most people here think of you that way. Good writer too!

I have no idea how I am perceived. Kinda pretentious but generally pretty chill, would be my guess.
Guest
Lurker
If there's any perception of me it's probably as too much of an attention seeker at times, maybe over the top.

Both of those seem right too, that's simply where my mind goes when i get here but i'm working on it with friends. Keep improving and learning and loving the process.
LostWallFlower
Active Ink Slinger
An introverted, sarcastic, flirty geek. Which on any given day, could be me in real life as well.
Guest
Lurker
Quote by Verbal


I think you are sharp and funny and have a low tolerance for bullshit, and I think most people here think of you that way. Good writer too!

I have no idea how I am perceived. Kinda pretentious but generally pretty chill, would be my guess.


Verbal, from reading you i perceive you as intelligent, probably intensely sensual, and a gentleman. Also a nice guy!
LillyLush
Active Ink Slinger
I'm just seated on the couch at home, sipping my coffee in front of TV, however, by the look of it on my , I'm ruling the roost with so many friends... online perception is powerful, and it’s amazing what our brains can be tricked into thinking, especially here at Lush... I think first our profile makes an impact, and then our conduct and behavior (stories, chat, blogs, forum etc) approve or disapprove what we've mentioned in the profile smile
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
David_LeRoy
Internet Philosopher
I’m probably more honest about how I express myself here than I am in my ‘real life.’ That’s solely a product of the anonymity along with a strong dose of not giving a shit. In my life and work, im very guarded about my privacy. My profession and those I interact with would largely not understand my inner self. Here, I don’t need to build walls.

My wife, Simplicty knows me better than anyone ever has. She is probably the only one who had seen me at my best and my worst, and knows my darkest secrets.

How am I perceived here? I’m willing to bet there are as many answers to that question as there are friends on my list.

The Wild Girl anthology need not be read in any order but does take place in the following timeframe

Wild at Heart- 1968. The story of Dani’s Great Aunt Evie.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/wild-at-heart

Wild Oats. Part 1&2. -2021. Dani is 16 and sets her sights on her stepfather.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-1

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-2

Wild Child. 2025. Dani is now 20 years old.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-child
Burquette
Bug
Quote by PrincessC

I doubt anybody has much of a perception of me either way. I quite like it like that.


The power of an avatar. Whenever I think of you, I think of Uma Thurman saying, "I'll be there in two shakes of a lamb's tail. "
Dani
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
The personification of a perfect spring day, obviously.

"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
Unknown User
Quote by Dani
The personification of a perfect spring day, obviously.


And a lover of titties
Guest
Lurker
People of Lush, have no idea of "my me." Some may think, I'm in tune with the walking dead or spiritual world. However that's a fallacy started by wayfaring strangers in the dark of the woods. I don't speak with animals, and I try to avoid fools. Unfortunately fools are among the woods and smell of fungus that mildew and rot. I write and I see and feel, sometimes touched by the landscape that goes with the windmill of my mind. I am upbeat. I am, whom I are. I gave up playing games after age six or seven. Its not me who will disgrace my mother. I would hope that mankind will do better, but its a far off place to reality for some.
Trystin715
Advanced Wordsmith
Oh, self-analysis? Yecch. Popeye fits my current mood. I yam what I yam. But when my mood changes, a different person materializes. You know how people say "Just be who you are!" Well, don't ever say that to a serial killer or some other kind of evil. I have learned that who you are when you are alone is the real you. If you sit on your butt and watch TV all day by yourself then that is who you really are. And one more thing, be careful with the truth. Like nitroglycerin, it blows up on you without you knowing why it did. Keep your truth to yourself until you know the other person has the skill to deal with it. Live well, leave no trace, and have more sex. Better to have sex with yourself than no one at all.
A man in the house is worth two in the street- Mae West
Warlock
Active Ink Slinger
I have few friends here and in real life by design. I'm old enough and wealthy enough that I don't have to tolerate anything if I choose not to. Accordingly, I am blunt to a fault, which doesn't lend itself to much ongoing social interaction possibilities. That being said, I am open sexually with few boundaries or limitations. So with the exception of decorum in time and place, I am the same here as IRL.
Belthazor
Idk... Gryffindor?
For the most part, what you see is what you get with me. Though on here, I'll admit I'm much more apt to speak my mind (no consequences) and I don't hide my sexuality as I would in a real-world setting like work or something.