What do you do when your wife is turned on by your fantasies, but will not engage in them? You write about it so she can read them, and work it out in the bedroom.
Yes really.
This all started a long time ago, a few years after we got married, with a text message conversation on a train. You can read that exact conversation in Handling Pt.1. Ten years and many, many sexual dreams later I realized that I wanted my wife to have sex with other men. After quietly fantasizing and acting them out during sex, I finally told her about my fetish. Unfortunatley, or fortunately who knows, she was and is not into it.
Oddly, however, she is turned on by them. Over the past few years I've been writing them out for her to read, which she also seems to enjoy. She is also increasingly open and aroused to playing them out in bed with dildos. And more recently she's been opening up and acting out her own fantasies and dreams. Still she is adamant that it "will never happen," but you never know. Until then, here we are.