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MrRowan
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 40
United Kingdom

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Was just reading your story, the whole story.

Basically, you and your (now ex) bf where going out for 2 years, no sex. Then you went wild and cheated on him with several people (at least 3). Then he found out about because you told a bunch of strangers on the internet about it.

I'm not here to cast blame or morality on anyone and maybe I'm not getting the whole story here. But if I was your (now ex) bf, I would be feeling pretty angry and humilated. Thats my peace :-( .
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If the girl was special enough, I probably would, would meet without sex as well - just hang out.
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Quote by lapdanceSimon
I worked once as an assistant for a magician and saw how some the tricks were done. Going to see a magic show as part of the audience is never quite the same again. I fear it would be the same after being a woman for a week. I am not into the cross dressing scene, honest, but I think you can buy false boobs made of silicon, the same stuff they use for breast implants. One imagines they would be very wobbly, the right shape, and fairly realistic. Any hot blooded make could play with those for a long time!


Thats a good point simon! Exanding your knowledge on what women go through would perhaps elimate the mysterious element of women and could ultimately make seduction of women less rewarding.
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Quote by 2706ali
i am afraid that the perfect 5 are awarded too easily here......Even i have been guilty of awarded a coveted 5,to friends on Lush,even though it hasnt been deserved.But it is difficult not to,however other stories,i have given a true rating based on what i have read .....


Your lucky, my friends tend to give me fours lol.

But I suppose it spurs you on for better writing, if you got nothin but five's there is no incentive.
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Swallowing is probably seen as an act of submission of the woman to as guy. Personally I couldn't care less as along as I cum lol.
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I was thinking about writing a lesbian story, but I am wary as hell because I'm a dude and obviously don't think like a woman.
Also, although I have watched lesbian porn, I am wise enough to know that the porn actresses may not be having sex like real lesbians have sex and I personally have never seen two woman have sex live to make notes lol.

Any advice? Should I bother? I do not want to be letting down lesbians and feeling their wrath because I made a typical male fantasy based lesbian story devoid of reality. Thanks in advance.
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Plus another benefit, being in the shoes of a woman 4 1 week, might allow you to understand woman a little better, a martian speaking venusian is a powerful weapon lol
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Quote by cherryrebel
Being a woman is harder than you think, it's not all playing with yourself and pillow fights in our underwear.


Would never argue otherwise :-)

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Lol. I'd quite like to see how men would handle a period, seeing as most of them don't actually get what happenes when we have one. However I think most women would handle being a man really well! At least we know how to give a girl good head lol. xxxx


Never mind periods, pregnency - no way I would go through that in a million years. Women get it tough, but you get to live longer than us for the trouble I guess.
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Quote by not_yet_famous
Why do you assume that if you turned into a woman, you would be a lesbian? What if you turned into a really hot straight woman (much more likely, statistically speaking), and just got hit on by guys for a week? You think you'd like that?

I love female bodies. But, honestly, I'm actually quite glad that I'm a man, and would prefer to stay a man for the time being.


I should have said your state of mind would be the same, just you body would change, so you sexuality would stay the same lol.

Yeah I'm glad to be a man too and no way would i ever consider changing that, but 1 week as a woman would be interesting as hell, the world would look on you in a whole new light. Just my curious nature I guess.
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And I don't mean just dumping on a wig and dress lol, if you could metamorph your body into a extremely hot blonde for 1 week for example. I would and here's the reasons.

1. Experience the lesbian scene
2. Experience lesbian sex
3. Experience the female orgaism (it looks pretty good)
4. Mutilple orgaisms
5. Play with boobies as much as you want.

After that I would change back into a guy though, less hassle in general being a man and I like being a guy.
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Coming from a guy, no you are not wrong, ignore whoever you like. If I was a woman on this site I would be going mental lol. That's why I never randomly IM people on this site ever, just rude I think.
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Losing your virginity is an anti-climax for a guy, thats how I felt.

You feel no different before than after. Our culture is so obessed about virginity - losing it, keeping it. I cant speak for women, but for guys I wouldn't worry about it. Just chill and be yourself dudes, your time will come.
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Marriage was never invented for love or emotional reasons.

It was invented to trade property and goods between families (and I'm not using this as a metaphor).

But it does conviently conform to the family unit and social structure of our species (we are, by nature a monogamous species)
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Yeah would be pretty pissed off if I seen my girl kiss another guy. Her kissing another girl is different though - I wouldn't mind - my friends cant understand that.
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love getting my back kissed up and down, really sensitive there, also my ear lobe - the nerves down my back get crazy for some reason when someone licks my earlobe lol
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Quote by SweetSexyThing
IGNORE HIM. If you give him more and more attention and you're thinking too much what you say to him, you were like still on the rush to talk to him even with those simple replies when he message or call you. So if you don't want the person getting false hints, just say nothing and cut off all communications. An ex is an ex, so leave him out in the past.


If she ignores him, he might get aggressive I would just tell him straight to honest. No messing around.
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Yeah you are probably both right. I certainly don't want to pressure someone to do something they don't want to do. Thanks
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This is one of my unfulfilled fantasies. I'm not even talking about a threesome, just to watch your girl shag another girl is so damn f**kin hot to me. I look at some girls and think "Hmm you would be look good being screwed by a chick." But I have never asked any girls at all coz none of them have seemed that attracted to females. How should I got about trying to persuade a girl? Can a girl be persuaded? Thanks.

Mr. Rowan
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Quote by TaintedRainebow
I keep getting messages from my ex boyfriend asking me to have sex and give him blowjobs. I am not interested AT ALL. And I have told him this time and time again. He just keeps telling me "I'll be in and out, no one has to know.."

How should I tell him to basically "Fuck off!" only nicely? I have a hard time being mean...

thanks guys!!
Rei♥

p.s. I love those new att commercials with the "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" music... so cute.
haha. anyways.
thanks.


TaintedRainebow, some guys just don't get girls and sometimes think girls being nice = flirting. I've seen it happen. No need to be nasty, just be firm with him, spell it out to him he has got no chance and he should stop trying.