Most people view Truth or Dare as a silly game, played mostly by college kids.  A means of shocking your friends, and maybe yourself.  Or maybe as a way to justify doing or saying things that you shouldn’t be doing or saying -- but really want to, and need permission.  Sometimes, though, it’s a way to find out the truth about yourself.  I belong to a co-ed bowling league.  There are four of us on our team, two guys, two g...