It really depends on both of you. My hubby and I have been in an open relationship since we met over 20 years ago. We have 4 kids and are still hot and heavy. Only Covid has slowed us down. The thing about us, is neither one of us has a jealous bone in our bodies. If either of you is jealous, if you aren't comfortable telling each other everything, i you don't get off seeing each other get off with someone else, then you may want to think about going further and discuss it.