It was the middle of the 1990s. I was about 20 years old and seeing a girl a couple of years older than me. We had been dating for about 6 months. I was a DJ at the local student’s union and had seen her dancing at my night with friends on many occasions. A mass of long curly black hair and a slim but curvy figure; she was gorgeous. I was a young, skinny Goth with long blonde hair still finding my place in the world and,...