Change comes to all of us over time. Sometimes it’s quick, but often it’s imperceptibly slow. Many people look back on their lives and wonder what the hell happened. They think, “I used to be that, but now I’m this. This isn’t me. Where did I go?” The years change them like waves eroding the beach, until they collapse. That’s not what happened to me. I know exactly what happened. Change came to me on a warm night in May o...