Trios 15 hours ago Spending Money 3 Tit for tat. My mother was giving me grief for having my schedule on the refrigerator. “Why is that on the refrigerator, and why is Pam’s name highlighted?” “It’s here because it’s next to the phone, where I can write it down and track my schedule. And her name is highlighted because she hasn’t paid.” Pam was one of my mother’s close friends, and she used it to her advantage when it came time to pay Mom for watching her kids. As much...