Swinging is not an activity for all people. By definition, it is a couple’s activity, and it requires a couple that is strong in their commitment to each other and open to new experiences. Here is the story of how my wife and I got started. My wife might say that she and I had been more or less happily married for fifteen years when we decided to explore. I am the story-teller, and I am very certain the story started long...

We had arranged to meet Mike and Sally at a country pub close to our local swinging club. They had made the first contact and to be honest we were not sure that we wanted to meet them, as their pictures were a bit blurred and it was difficult to get a feel for what they actually looked like. You might think that that sounds a bit shallow but in the years that we have been swinging, we have discovered that things have to s...

As I approached the coffee shop, I could feel my nerves jangling.  I had spoken to the couple on the phone and by Facetime and although they seemed very nice, it was now seeming much more real.  I was about to meet them for the first time in person. I opened the door, walked inside and looked around.  I saw them instantly, sat together in the corner.  I waved at them and said, "Hi." Sam got up and walked over.  "Let me ge...

Hi! Just wanted to introduce myself, my sister and a bit of family history. Well, she's only my half sister. We both were orphans for awhile before a wealthy and caring couple from the United States adopted us. We were born in Vietnam and have the same mother but different American fathers. Apparently, our birth mother survived those terrible years with the help of a few soldiers from the U.S. We, of course, were the unpl...

Luke and Eva were pleased to hear from us again, and ecstatic to hear that we were considering taking them up on their generous offer. First, I had several questions to ask Luke, and so much ground to cover that an online chat session no longer sufficed. We exchange cellphone numbers and I called him directly.I stressed to him that I wanted to ensure that all four of us were on the same page, and that it would be easier i...

I playfully wrestled on the bed with my wife, Monica, late one night. I had one of her hands pinned above her head while I stretched with my other arm to reach the lamp on our bedside table. Just as my fingertips had barely touched the light switch, she bit me on the shoulder, causing me to recoil."Ow!" I yelped. "That hurt!""Don't be such a baby," she teased."Baby? You're the baby! Why won't you ever let me turn on the l...

A shaft of morning sunshine streamed through a gap in the curtains and crept across the bed until it found me and woke me from my slumbers. I stretched out and patted the duvet to see if I still had company. The smooth female voice of our Home Analysis System floated around the room. “Hello Murray, it is 6:30 on Wednesday the 30th of November, 2067; it is your national saint’s day, and all is well with the world. Kay left...

As it turns out, I have two "first time swinging" stories, but this was my first visit to a nudist resort and my introduction to Lifestyle. ***In 1991, I was twenty-two years old. I met a friend on the volleyball court in Atlanta that lived at Paradise Lakes nudist resort in Land O' Lakes, Fl. My girlfriend and I were soon to break up and he told me I should check the place out. He had a Gold Card membership and could get...

After my experience with Dan and Lisa, I wasn’t actively looking for another “hotwife” couple. Shortly after I severed ties with the two of them, however, I received a message on our swinging website. I had reached out to Phil and Danielle shortly before meeting Dan and Lisa. I was not only intrigued by the photos they included in their profile, but also with their sincere and articulate description of themselves.Danielle...

His name was Dominic. Although he wasn’t technically a co-worker of Kathleen’s, he worked on the security team within the same building. He was in his late-fifties – sixteen years older than my wife. Kathleen’s job at the time required her to spend a good deal of time with the security team. As the team was comprised almost entirely of men, she attracted quite a bit of their attention.It wasn’t merely her stunning good lo...

I eased into the warm and bubbling water and sat on the ledge along the perimeter of the enormous hot tub. I leaned my head back and stared up at the Jamaican sky filled with more stars than I had ever seen before in my life. It was quiet except for the sound of the water and the quiet murmurs of the few guests that surrounded me.It was the end of a very long day. We had crawled out of bed in the early hours of the mornin...

After Kathleen’s solo adventure with Kyle, she seemed to become less and less interested in swinging with other couples. Our nights out at parties and nightclubs became rarer, and her insistence that I find a playmate of my own grew stronger. Without realizing it, our shared swinging hobby gradually transitioned into more of a parallel pastime.“I just think it’s easier this way,” she explained to me one night. “It’s too h...